Turkle’s discussion on society’s need for
controlled connection is insightful. Her argument that texting allows people to
have relationships at arm's-length demonstrates a harsh truth. People
frequently hide behind screens, devising a perfect response instead of natural one,
degrading their communication skills. Her idea that personal growth and
relationships are aided through talking in real-time becomes logical.
That being said, she generalises in saying people
want to connect with each other but without commitments; it depends on the
relationship. If the people truly care, they will make time for each other face
to face, online or off.
That is great insight, well said. We use digital communication to replace real life human connections with each other. More importantly we use it to replace conversations with the people who mean most to us.
ReplyDeleteI believe the need to devise a perfect response while texting can actually be detrimental to face to face conversations. I can sometimes get down on myself for not saying something "perfectly" in a real life conversation. I do realize that this personal expectation of "perfection" is unattainable and that failure is a part of day to day life.
ReplyDeleteWell written Felicia, I agree with your statement on Turkle's "generalising," of people connecting without commitments. Specific relationships with the individuals we engage with will always be the determining factor on how thoroughly we connect with others.
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